These past couple of years I kept breaking my own record for the longest hiatus between posts. I also kept breaking my promise to write more. Not that anyone holds it against me, but perhaps this brief run down of my last two years will give you some insight into why I've been so frequently absent:
Spring 2007: I'm offered a new preaching job in the suburbs of Columbus, Ohio.
June 2007: After months of preparation our family moves over 1000 miles from Kansas for the new work. We rent a church-owned house next to the building just north of Columbus.
August 2007: After a time-consuming search and all the red tape of home purchasing, we move two miles down the road to a house that we bought.
September 2007-April 2008: Much time is spent working to acclimate our family to a new city, new neighborhood, new church, new job, and new school district.
April 2008: Following a tumultuous and often disappointing nine month tenure, I lose my job (a loss which has nothing to do with doctrine or any moral issues) and I'm given three months severance. By our own choice, we start attending a congregation in Westerville, Ohio. It is a loving place to heal.
Spring-Summer 2008: My full time job becomes looking for a job. Gretchen renews her teaching credentials involving much red tape. I limit myself to no more than eight hours a day of beating the bushes. This allows more time for family and getting reacquainted with my wife after the disillusioning hard knocks of life. We get reacquainted with long walks and long talks, making the best of my unemployment. I learn to recreate again. We attend our nephew's Eagle Scout ceremony in New York state.
Summer 2008: Our family makes two roads trips to the states of Delaware and Nebraska exploring ministry opportunities. Vacation is combined with a Boy Scout outing to Mammoth Cave, the Slugger Museum, and Patton Museum in Kentucky with a little help from our friends.
July 2008- November 2008: When the income ceases we live on savings, family loans, and a temporary job. The Westerville church members provide random acts of generosity. We refuse cash until an anonymous donor gives us $250 at Christmas time.
August 2008: Gretchen begins homeschooling Justin. He plays with the band at a local Christian school where the principal is kind enough to give us a good break on tuition for the one class.
September-October 2008: I land a temporary job for a company that administrates class action lawsuits. I work to prevent lawsuits by helping the subsidiary of a credit bureau to assist another company whose customers have been victims of data breach. (Don't ask).
September 2008: I begin weekly Sunday morning preaching in Findlay, Ohio--just over 80 miles from where we live. So I do the temporary job through the week and we travel 90 minutes one way every Sunday morning.
Late October 2008: My temporary job ends, I am rear-ended in an auto accident resulting in several weeks of chiropractic care, my mother faces life threatening surgery, and we make a trip to Arkansas and Missouri to see relatives.
Late December 2008 - January 2009: Gretchen is laid up after badly spraining her ankle while ice skating with the kids. This is followed by several weeks of physical therapy.
January-May 2009 - I am hired as full time minister in Findlay where I basically live Sunday through Thursday of each week. The first few weeks I spend in a condo due to the generosity of a member who has the unit for sale. When it sells I switch to another condo owned by a generous couple who like to winter in Arizona. When they return, the elders and I make the choice that I switch to Extended Stay. Mondays through Thursdays I spend time getting to know church members, preparing a preaching plan, and becoming acclimated to the community.
The family and I come in two vehicles every weekend. Gretchen and the kids return to Columbus on Sunday afternoons where they stay until Erin finishes the year in public school. Thursday evenings I'm back to Columbus for 48 hours where we spend time packing, getting the house ready to sell, and loading the mini-van with stuff for a storage facility we rented in Findlay.
May 2009: We put our house on the market and it sells in only three days. We move to Findlay with the help of some great people from the Findlay and Westerville congregations. We walk away with enough money to purchase a new build with more square footage, a lower interest rate, and a less expensive monthly payment.
The Lord is good! After five months here with my family, I'm happier than I've ever been. So there is the explanation as to why my posts have been so infrequent over the last two years. I still hope to post more regularly from this point on.